Hate it Hate it Hate it!

Those who spread their "hate" around, giving biased views and comments. That is wicked. Hate is a strong word, but he used it.

I gotta say I dislike him. The way he do things, talk to me (sometimes), etc. But he has his good points as well, and therefore, I will not use the word "hate".

Somehow, we work differently. And somehow, the mutual dislike deepened. Just like cold war, where the invention of one weapon leads to the other country producing a superior one, and so on.... And it just takes one or two small incidents to break hell loose.

It was ugly. But still, we have to move on. Life is wonderful, life is spectacular, and I should not narrow my outlook over such a small thing. Sometimes, we dwell too much over small issues and neglect how to live life in a happier manner. Move on.

I really wonder if I have improved through national service. My pride is still so big that I find it hard to let it down to accommodate different people, different thinking, different attitude. If it carries on this way, how am I going to live harmoniously with my future partner? Just like how I teach my cadets not to stop learning even after they commission..... I gotta learn it all over again somehow.